The human beings ar a “mixture” of physical , spiritual and soul elements , nobody can “escape” this law and of course jealousy is part of this .
All people have felt in some specific moment n our lives , this “bad emotion” of jealousy , no matter if we admit it or recognized it . You know it’s possible for a person to feel jealousy for another person or situation in a very minor grade and don’t realize it .
Of course many people feel jealousy in a very big scale in their lives and all this , causes serious themes with their relationships .
Jealousy for sure is a very strong passion of the soul and in no way it’s a good passion . It doesn’t motivate you to be better , except maybe some very few situations .
Jealousy makes you feel very “ugly” emotions for a person and it brings you to a very stressful situation , if you cannot possess or be , as the other person . I don’t know maybe it’s the environment you’ve raised or your surroundings that “encourage” you to feel jealousy , but for sure you should avoid these kind of feelings .
See in HERE some thoughts concerning the environment and the effect it has to a person .
If you let yourself to feel jealousy emotions for a human being , the next step is to feel hatred for him and this mental spiral isn’t over . These are serious mentality “traps” and for sure they won’t leave to you , nice results .
The factor of jealousy is daily around us and many people have serious issues , concerning the way they should react and deal with jealous persons and jealousy haters in general .
The best way to deal with a jealous hater is to recognise this behavior of his early , don’t argue and insult his ego directly , redirect his thoughts to other areas if you can and maybe with politeness , try to make him understand , how “childish” he acts .
In no way you should “fight” and get angry with a jealous hater , you’ll make “things” worst , because you’ll tease his inflate ego and pride and of course his reactions , will be bad .
If you make a straight forward “attack” , of course he’ll deny everything , in order not ot be embarassed in front of others and for sure , he’ll hate you MORE . It’s just simple psychology and you know a “wounded”
ego and flase pride , are very bad “advisors” .
See i HERE what this emotion which called ego , can do to all of us .
If you’re dealing with a jealous hater which is more aggresive and stubborn , than you should have expected from him , the best way is to politely avoid him completely for the current moment and not trtying anything .
You should just find an excuse and leave from the highly “toxicity” place , till this bad vibe will fade .
In any case you should NEVER confront a jealous hater in an “open field” and you shoud NEVER try to “correct” him and the things he says to you , “blinded” by the power of these two strong emotions .
Many times a jealous person , may insault you very hard in front of people trying to “create impressions” , but you should be prepared to this and don’t react , driven by your ego !!!!
A very serious and uncomfortable situation is when you have a jealous hater in your daily life , in your especially in your job . In this case you should be aware and always check about the “tripping up” actions from him , in order to harm you .
See in HERE 10 serious signs , that someone is competing against you .
In this case you should act more effectively and protect your job and carrer interests . Unfortunately in life many times you’re “forced” to be more clear about your “red lines” and act to protect these lines .
You should not “afraid” to draw “red lines” and be clear of what is allowed to you and what is NOT , with the best possible politeness . This doesn’t make you a bad person . It’s just called personality !!!!!
If you’re dealing with a jealous driven hater , to your very personal and close environment , ( family , girlfriend – boyfriend , husbands , et.c ) , you can be more “free” in here to express yourself better .
In such cases and because these persons are close to you , you can say more “free” what you think about jealousy and hatred . You can analyze more “free” these emotions with the other person .
You can be 100% sincere and who knows maybe , “correct” the hater depending of how “open” is his mind and how low is his false ego . This is a very nice situation .
In my opinion the jealousy and hatred , even if they very strong inner emotions , they’re kind of “softer” than the pure evilness , someone may have and be driven by them . Yes , they may cause “ugly” situations and problems , but it isn’t evil in its pure form .
Sometimes they may be evil too , but most of the times jealousy and hatred are more “childish” behavior , than a person who is evil and wants to harm your life , “deadly” seriously . This person isn’t “reversible” .
See in HERE some signs that someone is driven by evil and be careful to him .
Never let sneaky emotions , control your life and do your winning “job” only . Let these emotions to “bark” and focus on your target .