DON’T be a person who hates .

Don’t hate nobody in your daily life , in the small things you do every day and most of the times you don’t realise the small holes in your character which allows the hatred to control you .

Hatred and violence can control your actions so smooth and silent and at the end of your excausting day , you’ve been beaten and you don’t even know it !!!!! .

During your life , during the process of your daily efforts to become a winner ( not only in sports of course ) , don’t fall in this trap .

Life itself will teach you “things” about yourself , which in other cases you would never have the blessing opportunity to learn . I don’t know why this happens .

Maybe one reason is the extreme efforts you do in every single moment , many times above your physical strengths , which unveil mental and soul power powers you didn’t know you have .

Gianni Kouros who is the best ultra marathon athlete in the world ,( with countless Guinness unbroken and “unreal” records ) said in an interview once that , scientists and doctors are searching in the wrong places to find answers concerning his awesome records .

Life itself has taught him “things” which cannot been explained logistic terms .

Maybe this is a gift by GOD for you , after seing your so extraordinary effort you do , to become something different in your life .

So every day that passes , little by little you will become a different person than you were in the early days , the days of your childhood , the days you only dreamed of becoming the BEST in the field you have your talent .

You will realise and understand the world and society differently , not only because you are age growing , but because you can see situations and humans deeper tο their core , deeper to the truth’s core .

You will realise that this soul searching of yours , trying to find soul power to keep going and eventually WIN , gave another “collateral” supply .

The supply to SEE THE TRUTH ignoring the fluffy surface ,ignoring the surface people structure ( and many times with so much care ) so you can see what they want to see .

This ability of course is welcomed and will help you many times to avoid ugly situations , because you will have seen the “end of the movie” already , but it has a ” weak“ point maybe .

If you are a very sensitive person , you may catch yourself stressed and annoying by the hatred , people have for you , or anyone who wants to fight for something in his life , no matter if he succeeds or not .

Your reaction to this perception of this fact in life , no matter how old are you is VERY CRUCIAL .

So my friend don’t fall into this so common trap to hate the haters back .

I know that sometimes it is very annoying to be surrounded by haters electricfied atmosphere ( sometimes every day , every hour if the hater is inside your family circle ) , but if this is your case , if this your problem , there is always a solution .

If you are humble and keep your small victories secret as you possibly can , until your big and final victory , which you may not be capable to hide . Success my friend makes noise , no matter how much humble you are as a person .

As i said above life is so smart , smarter than anyone and if you watch with clear mind you will find answers for eveything that bothers you . But life which is the greatest teacher of all speaks at you and says: ” I am showing you the example you MUST NOT ACCEPT ” .

Don’t be a fool walking the road of hatred and envy .

Here is a trick you may find usefull for those days you catch yourself ready to explode ,for those days you want to kick the person who stress you so much and makes you mad and puts your personal limits to the test .

Imagine yourself out of yourself , furious and delirious completely defeated by your Ego and nerves , beating with your fists the person who makes you mad .

After the couple of minutes “boxing” match and your unstoppable explosion , the other person is laying down with his face smashed and you are starting to go out the room more relaxed after your uncontrollable burst .

Shyly , shyly some guilt is going to enter your mind and soul ,just about the time you think that you did right to hit that person , because : ” we are not all the same n this life “ . Before you close the rooms door you hear loudly from your little “voice” , we all have inside our heads :

YOU’VE JUST LOST your life’s goals my friend .

BLIND VIOLENCE and HATRED IN ANY FORM , ARE WEAKNESSES . BE STRONGER .