We live in a highly demanding times and the people’s societies are hugely competitive . People are spending most of the times trying to succeed in any possible way and many times they use “sideways” techniques” to do that .
Of course not everyone outhere is your friend or has love and friendly emotions for you and when we talk about success and victories , “things” are getting more complicated .
You already know that i believe that the “toxicity” people( don’t hate anyone ) in general , are great “trainers” for you and in HERE , you can see why i believe that .
So let’s see 10 very characteristic signs that someone or many more , is competing against you in every environment , a business one or elsewhere :
1) They do what you do , immediately .
If you buy a nice cloth , a car , a bike , a house or whatever else the people that is competing against you , will try to have the same the faster they can . Most of the times they’ll try not to “copy” you 100% , because they don’t want to be identified .
They’ll try to have the same material – element that you have with some minor differences . Different color , a little different design maybe and stuff like that . Of course all this behavior of theirs will be “spontaneously” and “incidentally” .
2) They do what you do , decreasing you the same time silently .
All the above “copy and paste” thing , will be done from the people that competes you , but the same time they’ll try to decrease you , silently and quietly . People that want to be better than you at any cost will try to decrease you , but in a way that doesn’t be so obvious .
They don’t want to “attack” you directly , so most of the times they’ll decrease you by implications .
3) They’re always in a hurry to promote themselves first .
People that feel anxious and want to be better than you , they always are in a hurry to do the job , before you . They want so badly to say their idea or whatever first and definetely before you , that will do everything in their power to delay you .
They believe that in this way they’ll drag al the attention to their idea , instead of focusing to have the best idea !!!!!!
4) They have Fake smiles – attitude on your success .
Of course when you have a “score” or any kind of success , their fake smile and attitude in general is so obvious that evcen a blind can identify . These kind of smiles are the wider ones in which the teeth are all shown , but if you stop and listen better , you’ll hear the whispering inside those teeth .
And believe me this whispering isn’t about love emotions and true happiness for your success .
5) They have Fake smiles and acceptance , on your innovations .
This is maybe the worst scenario for the people that are competing against you . When you find something new and theis thing is welcomed by the mahority , these people are hurting the most from this situation .
They wonder “why they didn’t find it themselves” and this question is “crucifying” them badly .
Yes , my friends this is the bad egoism and read in HERE more about it .
6) They have Fake sadness on you failures .
The best scenario for them is when you fail in some project , or anything in your life . They feel maybe justified , becaue they avoided the trap you fell into and of course they feel a little(!) happy for this .
In this case they’ll show their sadness of course for you and they’ll say such beautiful words of wisdom and support .
Don’t listen to them , don’t have bad feelings for them and keep walking to your goal .
7) These people feel disadvantageous by you , deeply inside and this creates jealousy of course .
Even if you do nothing these people feel disadvantageous very deep inside them and all this creates the sneaky emotion in jealousy in their lives . And of course this is so obvious by you , even if you find it strange .
Inspite of focusing in their advantages , they focus on yours (!) and they feel underestimated , not understanding that EVERY people outhere has something he’s better at .
8) They always compare themselves with you and “demand” confirmation .
In here the situation is : ” look at me doing that . Am i not VERY good ? and maybe beter a little(!) than you ? ”
These kind of competing people has always the anxiety of the comparison with you , to be a little better than you and feel more important than you . This is a major sign , that they are competing you in every step of their lives and why not giving them some acceptance with good will .
It isn’t moral to play mind games with them , or with people in general and in HERE i say something about mind games when you fight to be the best .
9) They try to eavesdrop your plans and maybe “steal” some ideas to present them first .
It’s a common situation in here . The people who competes against you , they’ll always have their “antennas” wide open to hear your future plans , maybe take them and present them as they were theirs . It’s very important for them to be faster than you .
10) It’s all in their Eyesight .
No matter how trained you are , no matter how good you think you hide your intensions , you cannot escape this “law” .
The mirror of the soul is the eys and if you learn how to “read them” in a person , you can identify his TRUE intensions . It’s so simple . Not even a highly trained secret agent , not even James Bond(!) can escape this rule .
Your eyes say it ALL .
People that are competing you have specific eyesight and specific vibe in general . If you’d like to see the specific eyesight a winner should have , read in HERE .
Being competitive isn’t always a bad thing , but if you don’t follow some moral unwritten “laws” , you play the game badly and how can you win this way ?