The acceptance by people for many humans ( not saying all ) is a crucial element of their personality and when people avoid you , you don’t feel so calm and peaceful .
I don’t know if this is good or bad , but i know for sure , that many of our actions are made because of the influence the people’s opinion , in our life . No matter if you’re a kid or an adult man/woman , no matter if you’re reach or poor , or whatever , you want this acceptance , even if sometimes you don’t admit it .
Many times this acceptance causes serious confidence themes in a personality , even bullying and many more . You now if you’re more sensitive as it needs the wrong time and in the wrong place , you may get deep hurt from the lack of this society’s acceptance .
Read a helpful article concerning how the Champions confront bullying and stuff like that in HERE .
So in your personal life you jave experienced the avoidance of people in many ways and you wonder why is that happening . Here are 8 of the most common and timeless reasons :
1) They just Don’t like your External Look .
There are a big part of people who are judging other people mostly from the exteranl looks and don’t care about the character or anything else . They are the “first impression’s” guys and girls only and if you don’t “cover” their standards , they choose to avoid you .
This is a very common attitude style for many people and of course you should not get upset by that in no way . Especially in our current lifestyle – social media life , this situation is very common .
2) They don’t like your Intelligence and Spirit .
This may also happen when you’re meeting people and maybe spending some time with them , getting to know them better . The factor of someone don’t like your level of intelligence ( especially if you’re smart – smarter enough ) and your personality’s spirit .
Maye they don’t like your sense of humor and the way you see “things” , especially when you don’t see them as they do . Yes , in here we have an egoism situation and remember what the bad egoism can do , in HERE .
3) You have different Ideology about life in general .
We are 7+ billion people on this earth and everybody , sees “things” and life , differently . Of course there are groups of people who have the same ideology more or less , between them .
If you don’t have the same ideology and especially if you criticize theirs , the posibilities to completely avoid and “ban” you , are way big .
4) They Avoid you , because they Fear you .
People have fears in general , as yourself of course . If your personality combines some of the fears people avoid for several reasons , the avoidance is quiet certain . If you’re more dynamic than your surrounding’s standards , or you have a competitive personality above the average , or you’re fearless when they fear , they’ll avoid you .
If you do “things” different than them and they cannot understand why , you’ll gain their avoidance . Especially if you show them that you don’t care for their opinion , the avoidance ie certainty .
Read in HERE , some of the reasons why people may hate you .
5) They don’t Understand – Accept and like your Lifestyle .
If you’re a person with a specific lifestyle and approach to life , which people don’t understand well , it seems “strange” and beyond their personal limits , people will avoid you fro this .
Everybody has his life standards and approach and of course this TOTALLY respectable , but many times the different is avoided , until you find a way to explain it to yourself .
6) The Money “issue” , is always a factor for Avoidance .
If you have more money than your surrounding people , jealousy follows the avoidance . You “hit” them in a very sensitive spot . If you have more money and materials than your surrounding people , you “hit” hard their ego and more bad emotions .
If you have less money or zero money than your surrounding people they maybe avoid you as a loser or someone who doesn’t try enough . It’s a “win – win ” situation in here and if this isn’t “mad” what is .
See in HERE , what these 2 bad emotions can do to a human .
7) They Avoid you , for Sexuality reasons .
Even if the world and societies have become so highly evoluted in the technology area and more , some “things” are very difficult to change in the people’s hearts and mind .
The factor of sexuality in general is a major factor of avoidance , even in our modern days . People continue to judge other people not seeing their hearts but their sexuality decisions , attitude , et.c .
8) Success “Makes Noise” and causes people’s Avoidance .
If you’re a successful person and especially if you became successful without any “sideways” help , people will avoid you in big dosages .
Not all people see you with good intensions and for sure they don’t see your success with good intensions . So many itmes they’ll avoid your company ( even if you’re humble person) , in order not ot compare with you .
All these are made subconsciously most of the times .
I’m certain that many of these bad passions – feelings are vanished when you deside to try , keep trying and finally win . Do you want ot see some Champion approach to “things” ? In HERE .
Keep walking and never stop .