From the moment we “arive” in this life , we get into the “game” of winning or losing , even if many times we don’t realize this immediately . No matter who you are , who your parents are and what they have in their bank accounts , you’re here in this life to do what you have to do and what people think is many times a crucial factor .
From the first time you take your first breath you must win . You must take your second breath , your third , et.c . I know that this may sound as a “childish” approach , but let me remind you how many babies sadly , aren’t taking their second breaths for millions of reasons .
So the life’s “game” has winners and losers , no matter if you and i like this or not . Of course it isn’t bad to lose , if you’re learn from this and the most importand you NEVER stop trying .
See in HERE how the countless defeats will make you a winner eventually .
So in this continuously life’s WAR , the opinion of people and what they think of you , many times is a crucial situation and many times can hurt you badly .
If YOU let it happen and if YOU give your permission . ONLY then .
The opinion of people is something you cannot avoid of course and nobody can “escape” of this situation . From the moment we desided to live in societies , cities , villages , et.c and have people around us , their opinion for us is something natural .
Their opinion may be good or bad . Their opinion may be driven by good intensions and many times may not . What people think for you and your life , can give you motivation , or many times cause you serious psychological problems .
See in HERE some thoughts concerning some illusions in life , caused by people opinions and what the winners confront them .
There is only ONE decision to make and stop caring for others Opinion .
If you want to stop caring for people’s opinions and never let them interfere in your life , you should only take ONE and only one decision for you and your life’s path .
This decision is about your list of PRIORITIES in your life , what you want to do with it and WHERE in the ranking the people’s opinion are standing . You should decide the level of interest you’ll necessary need to give to opinions in general .
This is simple a matter of one decision from you . This is a very personal decision of course . You should “talk” with yourself and in the scale from A to Z in your mentality list , WHERE the people’s opinions stand and WHY .
The most important in here is that you have to be 100% discipline to what you’ll decide . You should make your mentality plan – list , concerning this factor and don’t change it .
If you want to totally stop caring about the people’s thoughts about you , you should put their opinion at the end of your priority list , for good . If you want to use some of their opinions ( mostly the good intentioned ones ) , as a “tool” in order to evolute and be better , you can do that too .
The important thing is that you follow your priority list in life and never make “discounts” . In that way you’ll never get stressed and confused . You just need to keep your program as you’ve decided and never deviate from it .
From the moment you’ve decided to have specific values in your life , the creation of the list concerning the importance of the people’s opinion for you , is an easy thing . You have these values as a “lighthouse” for any situation and you judge how much you care or you totally ignore , opinions .
Many times , especially when you’re trying to achieve a goal to be 100% discipline is something hard , but it’s surely very important . If you choose to have a specific policy about the people’s thoughts for you , you must be follow this decision , no matter what .
Sometimes you have to be so discipline and follow your plan , as if you’re not one person , but two !!
Read in HERE something about this and remember that victory loves preparation , organized mind and lists with priorities !!!!!