Everybody wants to be the best of deep down . Everybody wants to win in life , no matter what they say or do sometimes . Everybody wants to be the big HERO in their environment , in their social circle .
Everybody wants to be successful in their lives and in their profession . This applies if you’re born wealthy and with less money issues , or you’re a poor guy – girl , who struggles . Everybody wants the happiness caused by the feelings of success .
Everybody wants ALL in their lives and of course they do good to want this kind of life , but many times “things” are tough . Many times life itself “beats” you down and you THINK that you cannot “escape” from all this situation .
In my opinion there is no problems it is unsolved and no matter in what “jail” you’re living in , you can win . Yes , you can win even if you’re “imprisoned” in many kinds of “jails” .
See in HERE some thoughts of mine concerning the “invisible” mind “prisons” .
How can you turn completely your life to the “path” you want is a question that many philoshophers , teachers , mind coaches are dealing with for “countless” years , searching and searching , but i have a kind of different opinion for this .
My opinion isn’t based in books and philosophical matters only , but it based in the “cruel” real life ONLY and the lessons life itself teaches you , every single second .
Is it possible to turn your life completely to another direction and be a TOTALLY different human being ? Yes , for sure you can and the process is maybe in front of your eyes your whole life and maybe you didn’t pay the proper attention.
I’ve written an article about the two persons you should be in order to win your fights and you can read it in HERE , but this is kind of deeper .
If you want to change your life TOTALLY , COMPLETELY and for good , you should only answer to a simple question . The answer to this question is the one that will define and change your life entirely .
You life’s turning point question , is This ?
Do you LIKE to WIN or to LOSE and HOW you felt when you serious LOST the FIRST TIME ?
The quality and the seriousness of your answer will be your entire turning point in your life . If it was Ok when you lost and “it’s ok , nothing happened” and you didn’t feel deeply hurt and “angry” with it , you may not be able to change your life’s route .
Everybody has an inner flame inside him and if this flame is hurt by some life situation , it can give you the BEST MOTIVATION to change your life and turn it over .
This inner flame is what makes the difference in a person’s life . This inner flame has nothing to do with the false egoisms and stuff like that . This inner flame is the greatest “fuel” for you in order to take the final decision , change your life from scrach and start all over again .
If your answer to the above question is the one it should be and you get very and deeply “pissed” with yourself form losing and losing and losing , the further decisions in order to reverse your life , will follow .
The further decisions are way easier from the answer to the above question . If you’re DETERMINED 100% to change your life and for the right reasons , you’ll find the “tools” to do that .
Determination , discipline , focus , hard work , mood to learn , toughness , love , confidence , people and coaches to help you , ignore the haters and more “tools” like that , will come very easy to come to you .
If you’re determined NOT to lose again , the next will follow .
This is so HUGELY IMPORTANT . To REFUSE to lose again . It’s the best “gift” you can give to yourself and this will be for sure your turning point .
Read in HERE some thoughts from the past by me , about this .
Its’ only a matter of taking decisions , faith and never return back to your previous state , no matter how difficult this is . There is no magic pill for this and only YOU , can make the step . Take the right one and NEVER look back to your previous self .