You should make a “box” .You may think to build a “box” . You must make a “mind box” . It isn’t so bad losing your life’s target every now and then . It’s ok i suppose to feel confused by the dailys – life small problems .We are not Gods .

We are human beings , who try every single moment in our lifetimes to achieve our goals , our childhood big dreams . It is so human and so respectable by me the period of our mind – storm.

This time in your life , who you feel so tired and empty inside you ,(especially when you try many years to be the one you want ) , and you “pray” for someone … some invisible hand , to take your pain and win the “game for you . And of course nothing happens , nobody shows up in the corner to help you .

You and only you with every strength and abilities you have , only you must do the “work” . Don’t waste your time searching for invisible hands and “magic” tricks , or help by nobody , than yourself .

Of course during your “journey” to success , you will meet helpers , good-hearted men and women , who will support you with a nice mouth-word , or give you a cool hit in the back trying to help you psychologically .

And sure this may give a nice feeling , a small smile and encourage you .This is human too .

But a nice word or a warm hug by your wife/husband , your kid ,or a good friend , can reach unto 60 – 70 – 80 maybe % . The 100% is reachable only by you . I know it is hard , but it’s solid true my friend .

So don’t waste your time , or throw the blame ( which is so wrong) to anyone else than yourself .

You win and you lose period . Accept it !!!.

Accept this , clear your mind , measure your strength , take the final desision , that you are willing to do whatever it takes for victory ( even risking your own life !!!!!) and start ” shooting” .There is no other way .

Your survival problems day-in day-out , maximizes the efford you need to do ( sometimes push you to your personal limits) , physically and mentally which is the most difficult in my opinion .

You must be prepared to train your mind and soul to handle the hunger sometimes , the cold winter with zero petrol to warm yourself and family , with zero air-condition to cool yourself ( and sleep peacefully at knights , to regain your powers ) the warm Greek summers .

The total darkness in your house because the electric company cut the power , the weeks of you being dirty because in the winter the water is freezy and you don’t risk a cold which will delay your training , and the most serious matter you should handle : NOT LET MISERY BRING YOU DOWN !!!!!! .

Notlet misery leed you to self-pity .This exact time you need to build your “MIND BOX” . The material of your “box” must be solid steel , carbon fiber , or whatever material is the toughest in this planet .

The key of the “box” is only personal and can be hold only by you .

You open or close your “box” and you are choosing the “things” you allow to come out of it . Inside it you must lock all those feelings which confuse the clearness of your mind .

All these emotions which penetrates without your permission inside your thoughts , gives you unwanted , irrelevant to your purpose stress .

Stress that locks you to a mind-jail .It may sound cruel , but sometimes you need to become cold emotionally , with no feelings bother at all .

You cannot be 110% productive , if you have million of thoughts in your mind . You need to have only one thought . The keeper of your “mind-box” key , should be your “extraordinary” and “alien” FOCUS .

No matter if the World War 3 has just began , your eye-sight and brain focus mustn’t deviate your purpose not even a NaNo inch ! . This ability wins championships , my friend .

MICK DOOHAN ( 5 times WORLD MOTOGP CHAMPION ) have said once , that he was doing the exact same lap-times in front of 300.000 viewers , or in total empty race tracks !!!!!!!!!!!!!! . His “job” was to race his bike and be the first to pass the race flag . Nothing more , nothing less .

The rest was only for the TV monitors , journalists and history . He only cared TO WIN . Mick was known for his unique ability to cut out the rest of the world and focus 1000% in his target . Why don’t you follow his living example ?

Keep trying and why not enjoy the hole process . The sence of humor with “things” ,always helps our attitude and can be used as a pressure valve and control many situations .